With Open Hands Pt. 7 – Stewarding Our Words
Daily Devotional October 20th - October 24th
Our words carry weight. Every sentence we speak has the power to shape hearts, heal wounds, or deepen them. In this week’s devotional, we’re learning what it means to live with open hands—to use our words not as weapons or noise, but as instruments of grace. Through Scripture, reflection, and prayer, we’ll discover how speech becomes an act of worship, how our influence can plant hope in weary souls, and how a community shaped by Christ can sound more like heaven than the world around it. Let’s open our hearts, open our mouths, and invite God to teach us how to speak life.
Monday, October 20 — The Power of Words
Scripture:
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.”
— Proverbs 18:21 (ESV)
Devotional:
Every day, we speak thousands of words—some thoughtful, others impulsive. Yet Scripture reminds us that words aren’t neutral; they are seeds. Each word we speak has potential—to heal or to harm, to build or to break. The way we use language reveals what’s happening inside us. When our hearts are full of grace, our words become carriers of grace. In a world where sarcasm, slander, and cynicism dominate the conversation, followers of Jesus are called to sound different. Our speech should reflect the One who spoke light into darkness and truth into confusion. To live open-handed with our words means recognizing that what we say is part of our worship—it’s one more way we show who’s shaping our heart.
Prayer:
Lord, help me to be mindful of the power of my words. Teach me to speak life where there’s been pain, and hope where there’s been despair. Let my conversations today reflect Your kindness and truth. Amen.
Action Point:
Pause and think before speaking today, and ask, “Will what I’m about to say bring life?”
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Tuesday, October 21 — Words that Build Up
Scripture:
“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”
— Ephesians 4:29 (ESV)
Devotional:
Paul’s challenge to the church in Ephesus was simple yet profound: let your words build, not break. The phrase “give grace to those who hear” means that our speech should leave people feeling stronger, not smaller. Every time you speak, you’re contributing to the atmosphere of someone’s soul. The Spirit of God invites us to use our voices as instruments of grace—to build faith in a coworker, peace in a friend, or confidence in a child. As N.T. Wright said, “When our words build up, heal, or reconcile, they become small echoes of the Word through whom all things were made.” Speaking this way isn’t about being nice—it’s about being holy. It’s about partnering with God’s creative work in the world.
Prayer:
Holy Spirit, use my words today to give grace to those who hear them. Help me speak with love, patience, and wisdom, so that my conversations draw people closer to You. Amen.
Action Point:
Send one message or make one call today purely to encourage someone. Tell them what you see God doing in them.
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Wednesday, October 22 — The Sound of Hope
Scripture:
“With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so.”
— James 3:9-10 (ESV)
Devotional:
James confronts us with a tough truth—our words can’t both worship and wound. The same mouth that blesses God shouldn’t tear down people made in His image. When we speak hope into someone’s life, we’re reflecting the heart of Jesus. He used words to calm storms, forgive sinners, and restore the broken. The goal isn’t to have perfect speech, but redeemed speech—words transformed by grace. You may not think of yourself as an influencer, but you are. Someone in your life listens when you talk, and your words shape their outlook. Use that influence to plant hope instead of hurt.
Prayer:
Jesus, let my words today echo Yours. Help me speak blessing where others expect bitterness. Fill my heart with Your compassion so my speech reflects heaven’s tone. Amen.
Action Point:
Think of one person who might be discouraged. Speak—or write—specific words of encouragement to them today.
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Thursday, October 23 — A Church That Sounds Like Grace
Scripture:
“Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.”
— Ephesians 4:15 (ESV)
Devotional:
Paul’s vision for the church is powerful: a community that “speaks the truth in love.” That’s not about flattery or avoiding hard conversations—it’s about holding truth and tenderness together. Truth without love can wound; love without truth can weaken. But when they work together, they bring healing and growth. Imagine if our church culture was known for that sound—grace in every tone, honesty wrapped in compassion, correction that feels like care. That’s what Bonhoeffer meant when he said, “The Word of Christ in the mouth of a brother is stronger than the Word of Christ in my own heart. We need each other’s voices of truth and love to stay strong in faith.
Prayer:
Father, make me a person who speaks truth in love. Shape our community to be known for kindness and conviction, for honesty and grace. Let our words make Christ believable to the watching world. Amen.
Action Point:
Encourage someone in your church family today. Tell them how their presence, service, or faith has impacted you.
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Friday, October 24 — Choosing Life
Scripture:
“The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.”
— Luke 6:45 (ESV)
Devotional:
Jesus reminds us that our words reveal our hearts. If we want to change what comes out of our mouths, we must first let Him transform what’s inside. An unguarded tongue isn’t a speech problem—it’s a heart problem. Living open-handed with our words means inviting God to fill our hearts so completely with His love that it naturally overflows into our conversations. It means releasing old habits—criticism, sarcasm, gossip—and replacing them with gratitude, blessing, and truth. Every word is a seed. And every seed we plant grows something—either bitterness or beauty. We get to choose.
Prayer:
Lord, purify my heart so that my words reflect Your goodness. Let my speech bring peace to my home, hope to my relationships, and honor to Your name. Amen.
Action Point:
Before the day ends, take a few minutes to pray over the words you’ve spoken this week. Ask God to heal anything hurtful you’ve said and to bless those who heard them with grace.
Monday, October 20 — The Power of Words
Scripture:
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.”
— Proverbs 18:21 (ESV)
Devotional:
Every day, we speak thousands of words—some thoughtful, others impulsive. Yet Scripture reminds us that words aren’t neutral; they are seeds. Each word we speak has potential—to heal or to harm, to build or to break. The way we use language reveals what’s happening inside us. When our hearts are full of grace, our words become carriers of grace. In a world where sarcasm, slander, and cynicism dominate the conversation, followers of Jesus are called to sound different. Our speech should reflect the One who spoke light into darkness and truth into confusion. To live open-handed with our words means recognizing that what we say is part of our worship—it’s one more way we show who’s shaping our heart.
Prayer:
Lord, help me to be mindful of the power of my words. Teach me to speak life where there’s been pain, and hope where there’s been despair. Let my conversations today reflect Your kindness and truth. Amen.
Action Point:
Pause and think before speaking today, and ask, “Will what I’m about to say bring life?”
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Tuesday, October 21 — Words that Build Up
Scripture:
“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.”
— Ephesians 4:29 (ESV)
Devotional:
Paul’s challenge to the church in Ephesus was simple yet profound: let your words build, not break. The phrase “give grace to those who hear” means that our speech should leave people feeling stronger, not smaller. Every time you speak, you’re contributing to the atmosphere of someone’s soul. The Spirit of God invites us to use our voices as instruments of grace—to build faith in a coworker, peace in a friend, or confidence in a child. As N.T. Wright said, “When our words build up, heal, or reconcile, they become small echoes of the Word through whom all things were made.” Speaking this way isn’t about being nice—it’s about being holy. It’s about partnering with God’s creative work in the world.
Prayer:
Holy Spirit, use my words today to give grace to those who hear them. Help me speak with love, patience, and wisdom, so that my conversations draw people closer to You. Amen.
Action Point:
Send one message or make one call today purely to encourage someone. Tell them what you see God doing in them.
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Wednesday, October 22 — The Sound of Hope
Scripture:
“With the tongue we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so.”
— James 3:9-10 (ESV)
Devotional:
James confronts us with a tough truth—our words can’t both worship and wound. The same mouth that blesses God shouldn’t tear down people made in His image. When we speak hope into someone’s life, we’re reflecting the heart of Jesus. He used words to calm storms, forgive sinners, and restore the broken. The goal isn’t to have perfect speech, but redeemed speech—words transformed by grace. You may not think of yourself as an influencer, but you are. Someone in your life listens when you talk, and your words shape their outlook. Use that influence to plant hope instead of hurt.
Prayer:
Jesus, let my words today echo Yours. Help me speak blessing where others expect bitterness. Fill my heart with Your compassion so my speech reflects heaven’s tone. Amen.
Action Point:
Think of one person who might be discouraged. Speak—or write—specific words of encouragement to them today.
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Thursday, October 23 — A Church That Sounds Like Grace
Scripture:
“Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ.”
— Ephesians 4:15 (ESV)
Devotional:
Paul’s vision for the church is powerful: a community that “speaks the truth in love.” That’s not about flattery or avoiding hard conversations—it’s about holding truth and tenderness together. Truth without love can wound; love without truth can weaken. But when they work together, they bring healing and growth. Imagine if our church culture was known for that sound—grace in every tone, honesty wrapped in compassion, correction that feels like care. That’s what Bonhoeffer meant when he said, “The Word of Christ in the mouth of a brother is stronger than the Word of Christ in my own heart. We need each other’s voices of truth and love to stay strong in faith.
Prayer:
Father, make me a person who speaks truth in love. Shape our community to be known for kindness and conviction, for honesty and grace. Let our words make Christ believable to the watching world. Amen.
Action Point:
Encourage someone in your church family today. Tell them how their presence, service, or faith has impacted you.
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Friday, October 24 — Choosing Life
Scripture:
“The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.”
— Luke 6:45 (ESV)
Devotional:
Jesus reminds us that our words reveal our hearts. If we want to change what comes out of our mouths, we must first let Him transform what’s inside. An unguarded tongue isn’t a speech problem—it’s a heart problem. Living open-handed with our words means inviting God to fill our hearts so completely with His love that it naturally overflows into our conversations. It means releasing old habits—criticism, sarcasm, gossip—and replacing them with gratitude, blessing, and truth. Every word is a seed. And every seed we plant grows something—either bitterness or beauty. We get to choose.
Prayer:
Lord, purify my heart so that my words reflect Your goodness. Let my speech bring peace to my home, hope to my relationships, and honor to Your name. Amen.
Action Point:
Before the day ends, take a few minutes to pray over the words you’ve spoken this week. Ask God to heal anything hurtful you’ve said and to bless those who heard them with grace.
